“Beforehand, I’d always found quiet corners in the changing rooms, listened to the humorous discussions that went on, but without joining in, because I couldn’t get a lot of words out.”
I joined McGuire after my first year away at college which was quite challenging as I was away from my support network. People used to speak for me a lot, but when you’re living on your own, you’ve got to front up a little bit and I couldn’t really do it. It was a tough year, but after joining the programme, I never looked back really.
Whincup quickly rose through the ranks at the McGuire Programme (a stammering training programme/course run for people who stammer by people who stammer) and became an instructor at a young age. This year will mark the 20th year in his association with the organisation and some may even know Whincup from his role on the Channel 4 documentary ‘Stammer School: Musharaf Finds his Voice’, where the coach taught Educating Yorkshire star Musharaf Asghar the same speech techniques that changed his life.
Another well-known former student of Whincup’s is former Saracens player, Kelly Brown: “He did his course whilst he was captaining Scotland. It was a busy time for him and then he has moved forward with his speech. Now he’s the Academy coach at Saracens.
“Now he’s using his voice to earn him a living. He still phones me up when he’s got a particular challenge and I help him prepare for it. But we mainly talk about rugby stuff these days.”
Whincup had always played rugby, starting out as a five-year-old at Stow-on-the-Wold Rugby Club and he went on to play for Camp Hill in Solihull and Cirencester, with a brief spell at Birmingham Moseley in between. But, after moving to London, Whincup became a casual observer of the game he had played for much of his life.
It wasn’t until after having his first child in 2006 that Whincup considered returning to the game; “I remember saying to my wife, ‘wouldn’t it be great if he played rugby and maybe I could coach him?’. When he was five there was the opportunity for me and him to join Tewkesbury and when he played with the U7s, I took that team on.
“I’d always kicked as a player and I’d always admired the way that Dave Alred went about his business. A few parents asked me if I could coach their children. I did some kicking sessions and it went really well.
“From there I was invited to become a Gloucestershire coach for the women’s and girls’ section. Kicking wasn’t part of their programme. I identified very quickly that it was an under-recognised area of the women’s game and a lot of points were being left out on the pitch.”
Whincup went on to approach Gloucester-Hartpury to offer his services as a specialist kicking coach and after enjoying two and a half years with the club, he took the decision to leave the set-up after being impressed by the player-centric focus of the Worcester Valkyries.
“It’s more than just the skill, or the game,” he said. “There’s a person behind the skill and I think that you have to get to know that person. People have said that our kicking sessions have made them feel happier, because we move away from everything else and they can forget everything that’s going on in their lives.”
Worcester currently prop up the Tyrrell’s Premier 15s table with four points, but Whincup is hopeful that his coaching will be able to add a different dimension to the Valkyries’ game that could change their fortunes.
“Where the points are on offer, we just need to make sure that we take them. Where I can hopefully galvanise things is around kicking to space and focusing on some of those finer motor skills, hopefully that will go into match scenarios. But that’s the challenge isn’t it?
“We’re all working hard to get those points up as much as we can. So, wherever I can help with that, I jolly well will!”.
Whincup will be reuniting with former Gloucester-Hartpury player, Megan Goddard, who was also part of the inaugural female Barbarians side last year. With the women’s game now reaching professionalisation, Whincup believes that the need for specialist coaches, like himself, will be increasingly required.
“I’m grateful to Worcester for the opportunity and I think they’re being quite progressive in their move of bringing me on board. I think in a general sense, I’m hoping as it’s my passion, kicking will be more noticed. Even in England games, it can be hit or miss sometimes. So, if we can start building it from the bottom up from around communities then we can move forward.”
As well as being a kicking coach for the Valkyries, Whincup holds several other roles. He is a consultant kicking coach with the Swedish national teams, McGuire Programme instructor, ambassador for the Duke of Edinburgh Award and a lecturer at Hartpury College, just to name a few.
Whincup believes that by keeping so vocally active it prevents his stammer from taking over; “It’s been a nice little journey and one of the main reasons is because it keeps my mind on its toes, speech wise. If I stop putting myself in these pressurised situations, then I’m giving my stammer too much of an opportunity to come back at me.”